Degree Date

6-2027

Document Type

Dissertation - Public Access

Degree Name

Psy.D. Doctor of Clinical Psychology

Academic Discipline

Clinical Psychology

First Advisor

Sandra Zakowski

Second Advisor

Bradley Olson

Third Advisor

Samar Harfi

Abstract

This phenomenological qualitative study explored the psychological impact of narcissistic parenting in Muslim families, with a particular focus on identity development, coping mechanisms, and the role of religion in the lived experiences of the participants. Previous studies have looked at the impact of narcissistic parenting on emotional development and self-concept, yet there is a lack of research on these experiences within Muslim religious and cultural settings. This study used a qualitative phenomenological design. Semi-structured interviews were carried out with five adult participants (three males and two females) who identified one parent as exhibiting narcissistic traits, based on the participant’s own perception rather than a clinical diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Participants were recruited through flyers distributed at Ihsan Coaching, a counseling setting for Muslim clients. Interviews explored parental behaviors, the role of the non-narcissistic parent, identity formation, coping strategies, and the impact of religion and culture. The data were analyzed using thematic analysis.

Five main themes emerged: narcissistic parental behavior and household dynamics; the non-narcissistic parent’s role as protector or bystander; identity disruption and reconstruction; coping strategies across development; and the impact of religious and cultural context. Results showed that participants experienced chronic emotional invalidation, control, criticism, and lack of empathy that contributed to identity confusion, self-doubt, emotional suppression, and interpersonal problems. Despite these challenges, participants demonstrated resilience through boundary setting, social support, and therapy and personal growth. Religion was a source of both distress and healing. Some participants described religion as a source of fear, guilt, and parental control, but many later developed a more caring and personally meaningful understanding of faith that encouraged healing and emotional resilience. The findings emphasize the importance of culturally sensitive, trauma-informed approaches that distinguish between religious beliefs and the misuse of religion within family systems. Implications for clinical practice and community leadership are addressed.

Keywords: narcissistic parenting, Muslim families, religious coping, identity development, trauma-informed care


 

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